TOM BOIZ

Okay for those of us who do not know the meaning of the word I’m sure you've at one time seen or heard of girls that are always trying to look and act like the male folk. Yea tom boys that's what we call them, I know a little girl just about 14 years, a down to earth or should I say a natural tom boy. She finds no joy at all in girl stuff and not so surprisingly is very good at guys stuff. Games for example, just last week she beat me twice at table tennis (shame on me) and I hear she’s good with a ball on foot too. The way she dresses (just like her “specie”) it’s like wearing a dress is taboo even her hair cut (more razz compared to mine). So am left wandering is it some kind of feminine mutation? #lmao# or is it something that preferentially appeals to them (the said “specie”) or is it out of influence, does it have a psychological explanation or is it just some random thing that happens purely by chance?
Some people believe that individual difference is what is at play here and people have the right to express themselves the best way they know how to. Now the famous psychologist Alfred Adler called tom boys “girls going on a masculine protest”. He asserts that most of the extreme ones may go ahead to become lesbians just to subconsciously prove a point or should I say “never bow to masculinity”.
 Well If Adler is right, my only question is what do we then say sissy boys are trying to prove? That girls are not the only ones who can cat walk? Going on a feminine protest? #lol#